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Stranger but no stranger…

posted by Barakah July 30, 2019 0 comments

You be like “BK! BK! BK! how many gaddam times did I call you?” Trust me, It’s no fun leaving you guys for this long but life happens, things happen and sometimes things you really don’t have control over and you guys know how I am very particular about staying sane which often times requires me disappearing for a while… Ok, you have forgiven me *winks*.. So let’s get to it…

Saw a clip online a couple of days back where a lady was talking about how she in love with someone in a week and how she feels at peace and safe with the person. wait! what? How is that even possible you might say but fact is whether or not it is something you can do or can let happen to you, It is actually very possible. Errm *roll eyes* why is BK talking about Love…..

Sometime back, I was in a pressing situation, I needed to talk to someone about something so bad, You might not understand why this was such an issue if you don’t know me, BK is more a listener than a talker, As important as communication is, I am still very much at the beginning of the preliminary stage and aside that, to help tackle this particular issue I had at hand, I needed an experienced person, A listener, A confidant, A realist and A friend, Now, obviously I have really trustworthy friends but the issue here was with experience, I just couldn’t come up with one name in my head, who could really be of help, I kept asking…

And just as I picked my phone to check for something (I can’t really remember), I received a message from this particular soul and Instantly I said to myself this is definitely the person I have been looking for, Trust me, I know almost nothing about this person, It’s not like the person is a life coach or a motivational speaker or something but I was so sure that I could ease up and get solutions involving the person…

Was I wrong? No! The atmosphere, The way we dissected the topic and came with solutions was just beautiful ad was everything I needed, I was very comfortable listening and sharing my worries with them, to think I know almost nothing about this person but in that very moment, it seemed like we have known each other since forever as we were actually spitting each other’s words….

But wait, why was I shocked at the way everything turned out? Isn’t the same way I respond genuinely to people’s messages every now and then?

At the end of the day, that very good friend was once a stranger…

It’s very safe to say I am very back…. *winks*

 

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